Hello again. This post is about my Personal Shopping training day. If I lose my way trying to relive the tears, the laughter and the fabulous OMG moments here in text for you all to appreciate, just know now that it was, in one word, AMAZING!
On the morning of my Personal Shopping training I was very careful to choose what I wore. Firstly, I needed to make sure that my footwear was comfortable as I knew there’d be a lot of walking. I also needed to make sure I looked well put together and groomed. Not only so the models (our volunteer guinea pigs for the day) respected my style and judgement but that the shop assistants did too – sure to get better service that way. Hence I decided against my tie dye, cut-away mini dress and patent thigh-high boots so to avoid any Pretty Woman scenarios.
I was due to meet Gail at 10am so we’d have time for a catch up and debrief before we met our first model, Ali, at 11am. I was half an hour early. I’m a bit of a time freak - I hate being late and I’m not very patient waiting for people who are late either.
If Gail was late, I didn’t notice. I was fascinated by the dialogue that was going on between a young male shop assistant and an unnecessarily demanding, commanding, unsmiling and rude elderly lady in the shoe department (and they say it’s the young that don’t respect the elderly? Pah!). In my opinion, the shop assistant lad deserved employee of the day. I was very impressed how he kept his calm and didn’t raise his voice once. I won’t relay the whole conversation to you, but suffice to say, had I been in the shop assistant’s shoes, I’m not sure I would have been able to resist surreptitiously replacing the pretty little patent heel courts in her carrier bag with a pair of gentleman’s corduroy slippers in the hope that it would teach her a valuable lesson in karma and respec’. Innit!
Ali
Anyway, let’s move on. Ali arrives and, over a coffee, she runs through her shopping list with me and Gail. It’s a very organised list on a sheet of A4. I’m impressed. I love a list. And I love an A4 clothes list even more!
On the morning of my Personal Shopping training I was very careful to choose what I wore. Firstly, I needed to make sure that my footwear was comfortable as I knew there’d be a lot of walking. I also needed to make sure I looked well put together and groomed. Not only so the models (our volunteer guinea pigs for the day) respected my style and judgement but that the shop assistants did too – sure to get better service that way. Hence I decided against my tie dye, cut-away mini dress and patent thigh-high boots so to avoid any Pretty Woman scenarios.
I was due to meet Gail at 10am so we’d have time for a catch up and debrief before we met our first model, Ali, at 11am. I was half an hour early. I’m a bit of a time freak - I hate being late and I’m not very patient waiting for people who are late either.
If Gail was late, I didn’t notice. I was fascinated by the dialogue that was going on between a young male shop assistant and an unnecessarily demanding, commanding, unsmiling and rude elderly lady in the shoe department (and they say it’s the young that don’t respect the elderly? Pah!). In my opinion, the shop assistant lad deserved employee of the day. I was very impressed how he kept his calm and didn’t raise his voice once. I won’t relay the whole conversation to you, but suffice to say, had I been in the shop assistant’s shoes, I’m not sure I would have been able to resist surreptitiously replacing the pretty little patent heel courts in her carrier bag with a pair of gentleman’s corduroy slippers in the hope that it would teach her a valuable lesson in karma and respec’. Innit!
Ali
Anyway, let’s move on. Ali arrives and, over a coffee, she runs through her shopping list with me and Gail. It’s a very organised list on a sheet of A4. I’m impressed. I love a list. And I love an A4 clothes list even more!
Gail, Ali and the list!
Ali is an Autumn and has a straight, slim and angular body shape – so Gail suggested that Zara was a good place to start (she’s been doing this style advisor and shopping malarkey a long time now and she sure knows her stuff). So off we went, colour swatch and list in hand.
I don’t think I was quite prepared for how quickly Gail can identify and pick clothes off the rails – she was on fire! It took me a while to get into the same mind-set as I kept gravitating towards clothes that were best suited for me rather than Ali! I was very nervous as I knew that Gail would be watching me closely to see if I was picking up the right clothes, sticking to the brief and following all the theory that I had been studying at home. Let’s just say that I got braver by the minute and very quickly got into the flow. So much so, that my arm started shaking with the weight of the clothes draped across it. I physically couldn’t hold anymore and so it was time for us to head to the fitting room.
I don’t think I was quite prepared for how quickly Gail can identify and pick clothes off the rails – she was on fire! It took me a while to get into the same mind-set as I kept gravitating towards clothes that were best suited for me rather than Ali! I was very nervous as I knew that Gail would be watching me closely to see if I was picking up the right clothes, sticking to the brief and following all the theory that I had been studying at home. Let’s just say that I got braver by the minute and very quickly got into the flow. So much so, that my arm started shaking with the weight of the clothes draped across it. I physically couldn’t hold anymore and so it was time for us to head to the fitting room.
Now's not the time to tell us you only have a £40 budget Ali!
We divided up the trousers, tops, jackets, skirts etc. so that Ali was able to try on lots of different outfits with the minimum of changes. I was having the time of my life seeing someone in clothes that made them look and feel wonderful. There was a moment that quite honestly I got goose-bumpy! Who would have thought that a mustard yellow shirt (pictured above) from Zara was capable of such things?
Ali with her 'yes' rail of clothes
There weren’t many items from our initial harvest on the shop floor that Ali said no to which I think was a product of a great selection of clothes and a body that was very easy to dress. Anyway, 3 (very heavy Zara) bags-full later and a Cheshire cat grin on Ali’s face, we ventured into Accessorize and H&M to pick up a few last bits.
For those of you who know me well, you will know that H&M is my favourite shop. And to concrete that further, something amazing happened in here when Ali tried on an Olive Green jersey dress. I felt tears burning behind my eyes because she looked so totally fantastic in it! Yep, tis true. I asked Gail if it was normal to feel that emotional and she said it was – phew! And I’m so blooming sorry that I didn’t get a snap of Ali wearing it – I was obviously too overwhelmed to get my phone out of my bag. Ali, if you’re reading this, please send me a pic to share with the world (no pressure!).
For those of you who know me well, you will know that H&M is my favourite shop. And to concrete that further, something amazing happened in here when Ali tried on an Olive Green jersey dress. I felt tears burning behind my eyes because she looked so totally fantastic in it! Yep, tis true. I asked Gail if it was normal to feel that emotional and she said it was – phew! And I’m so blooming sorry that I didn’t get a snap of Ali wearing it – I was obviously too overwhelmed to get my phone out of my bag. Ali, if you’re reading this, please send me a pic to share with the world (no pressure!).
Ali with her bags and Cheshire cat grin
Me and Ali with our sparkly grins
So that was the end of Ali’s personal shopping trip which lasted 3.5 hours. Not long at all for a wardrobe overhaul I reckon. However, we overran by half an hour so I was late for Sarah. Not good. But luckily, unlike me, she’s not a time freak and seemed very laid back and relaxed when we met her in the café.
Sarah
Now, Sarah’s list was significantly shorter than Ali’s. Sarah needed skirts and dresses which she finds tricky to get due to her inverted triangle body shape - as what fits on the hips often doesn’t fit on the waist.
It was good experience for me to see how tricky and obviously frustrating this can be. She tried on many, but sadly they didn’t fit or were unsuitable for what she had in mind. But armed with a few tips, she can now at least continue her search online and in other shops at her leisure. We discovered that she definitely suits a pencil skirt shape and that she needs to avoid skirts with waistbands and opt for those that sit on her hips instead.
But please don’t feel too sorry for Sarah - she found a top that quote “I will wear all the time!”. The top was lucky to make the final cut actually as it cost a few more pounds (well 50 more pounds to be precise) than Sarah wanted to spend on a top – but it did look brilliant and the cost per wear will make it great value. She also bought a beautiful blue scarf, a silk shirt (that she wore to an interview this week and got the job - congratulations!) and a gorgeous pink, fine knit, V-neck jumper. These items will revitalise any existing clothes she has in her wardrobe – and can often be the most rewarding purchases.
Sarah
Now, Sarah’s list was significantly shorter than Ali’s. Sarah needed skirts and dresses which she finds tricky to get due to her inverted triangle body shape - as what fits on the hips often doesn’t fit on the waist.
It was good experience for me to see how tricky and obviously frustrating this can be. She tried on many, but sadly they didn’t fit or were unsuitable for what she had in mind. But armed with a few tips, she can now at least continue her search online and in other shops at her leisure. We discovered that she definitely suits a pencil skirt shape and that she needs to avoid skirts with waistbands and opt for those that sit on her hips instead.
But please don’t feel too sorry for Sarah - she found a top that quote “I will wear all the time!”. The top was lucky to make the final cut actually as it cost a few more pounds (well 50 more pounds to be precise) than Sarah wanted to spend on a top – but it did look brilliant and the cost per wear will make it great value. She also bought a beautiful blue scarf, a silk shirt (that she wore to an interview this week and got the job - congratulations!) and a gorgeous pink, fine knit, V-neck jumper. These items will revitalise any existing clothes she has in her wardrobe – and can often be the most rewarding purchases.
The 'I will wear it all the time' top from Jigsaw
Sarah joked that she was disappointed that she hadn‘t found a garment that reduced me to tears and used this as her gauge throughout her session. However, what Sarah’s clothes didn’t provide for in the tear department made up for in the laughter department. That sounds wrong. I know this is likely to lose something in translation, but there was a pure comedy moment where Sarah put on a top and turned to me and Gail for our opinion. Sarah saw both our shocked and surprised faces staring at her. Our faces then collapsed into fits of giggles. And no, she didn’t buy the top and yes she found it very funny too – it was a great moment.
Happy Sarah!
There is so much more I want to tell you about the day but, already, I think this is a post of epic proportions and if you’re still reading this, thank you for your patience. I imagine that reading this could easily be compared to looking through someone else’s photos of a two week beach holiday – yawn! But I hope not.
My conclusion is this. The day confirmed to me that being a style advisor is what I was born to do. And as I was born over 41 years ago I really do need to get a right old shifty on, finish my training and get out there!
A want to say a massive thank you to Gail for allowing me to showcase my ideas and knowledge on the day and for generally just being her very stylish, approachable and lovely self. And of course to Ali and Sarah the models – I hope you’re enjoying your new clothes - you look pretty darn gorgeous, ladies!
M x
Next time, as an antidote to Jean Genie, I will be taking the 'No Jeans to Work Week' challenge. That sounds more 'half naked' than I intended it to be. Let me clarify. I have to wear either skirts, dresses or trousers to work - no jeans allowed. I have no idea how this is going to work out as I'm sure I only have 1 skirt suitable for work in my wardrobe and possibly only 1 pair of trousers - think I'm regretting this already. Time to get creative!
My conclusion is this. The day confirmed to me that being a style advisor is what I was born to do. And as I was born over 41 years ago I really do need to get a right old shifty on, finish my training and get out there!
A want to say a massive thank you to Gail for allowing me to showcase my ideas and knowledge on the day and for generally just being her very stylish, approachable and lovely self. And of course to Ali and Sarah the models – I hope you’re enjoying your new clothes - you look pretty darn gorgeous, ladies!
M x
Next time, as an antidote to Jean Genie, I will be taking the 'No Jeans to Work Week' challenge. That sounds more 'half naked' than I intended it to be. Let me clarify. I have to wear either skirts, dresses or trousers to work - no jeans allowed. I have no idea how this is going to work out as I'm sure I only have 1 skirt suitable for work in my wardrobe and possibly only 1 pair of trousers - think I'm regretting this already. Time to get creative!
